Girl Code #101

Hey Beautiful People.

So after my last blog post I found myself having to take my own advice more and more and well something almost pushed me over the edge and I almost became a dragon blowing fire. That simple thing was GIRL CODE!

So today I want to find out from you whats your Girl Code #101?


No. 1: Stay away from my Boyfriend!!! 
Yes duh! This is the most obvious one, but as a friend you are allowed to be friends with your friend boyfriend right? But how far does it go? How do you know when to stop or what to stop?
Friends are there to comfort and back you up but should you be comforting and backing you friend's boyfriend up even though he is your friend too?
My answer is HELL NO! You should know that even though you are friends girl code #101 is stay away! Its not because you're a horrible person it just because when 2 people are in a relationship, the only comfort hey should be getting is from their partner.

No.2: Honesty Bro!
Okay why be friend if you cant be honest with one another. Girls tend to have this very sly approach to other girls and even though sometimes no harm was meant you end up not being friends at all! WHY CANT WE JUST BE HONEST?? Like if I done something to hurt or offend you tell me so we can sort it out. I wont know unless you tell me.

 No.3: Secrets Secrets Secrets!!!
This is the toughest one so far! Secrets are meant to be kept even when you're in your grave! Yet they fly out faster then jets! A friend is there for you to confide in when you have no way out anymore! But that doesn't mean the next day the whole world must know what you went through! Ladies can we please just be real with one another and loyal to each other!

These are the 3 most serious Girl Code #101 for me. Please let me know what your girl codes are?

Looking forward to hearing from you!

Love Ja!


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